Due to some tough matches and playing the 1 line for doubles and singles all season I had a losing record in our just completed 3.0 season.
So a few things, I know the lines don't matter by themselves but my loses have all come against players who were part of a national team last year. Also against me or that's making me wonder what steps to take is while have a losing record I have 1 strike against me from 3.0 and have had "grieve" attempts as I'm still self rated. I too don't wanna go to 3.5 and get spanked (which I doubt would happen) however I don't wanna be a big fish in a small pond either as it'll stunt my development. This is going on year 2 in tennis for me.
So from what you have stated you have been playing tennis two years, you have a losing record from this spring and ALL of your loses were against one team who went to Nationals last year.
These are your words not mine. So here are my questions to you:
1) Did you only play matches against a few teams this spring, one of which was a team who went to Nationals last year? And all of your loses, came against the team that went to Nationals?
2) What was your spring record and how many matches did you play against the team who went to Nationals?
3) How do you know you have a strike, since the USTA doesn't tell player when the get the first two strikes. It seems you are making an assumption here.
4) You wrote "So in part it's me trying to find my true level." I offered you the solution to that question in my Beer Buy in Challenge, so are you afraid to take that challenge?
Before I make a decision I'm waiting till after mixed and combo to make a choice. So in part it's me trying to find my true level. This is going on year 2 in tennis for me.
The Beer Buy In Challenge
Find three other 3.5 players same gender within 20 years of your age who are the average 3.5 player at your facility willing to play three full sets of doubles with them, changing partners after every set. The catch: Everyone brings $25 for the buy in and a 12 pack of cold beer on ice. If you don't put money and beer on it, don't even do it. Fact: money and beer keep people honest and playing to win. Play against average player, the players you would likely see in a USTA league match.
The player who wins the most games gets: $60 and two 12 packs (he nets $35), the next player gets $40 and a 12 pack ( they net $15), the third place finisher loses the $25 buy in and the beer, and the last place player loses their $25 buy in and the four of them drink player #4's beer.
Repeat with 4.0 players. If you beat any 4.0, please ask they to appeal down. They probably won't be they should.
I will take this bet with any 4.0 men at any facility all day long and I don't even drink beer, but I do provide it for friends.
If you aren't brave enough to take my challenge don't play up in a league without doing "Beer Buy In" first.
I agree with the other posters. If you are kicking butt in 3.0, enjoy winning and go to nationals/win some trophies, and play up at 3.5. The jump in skill level between 3.5 and 4.0 players can be quite huge.
What part of "
I had a losing record in our just completed 3.0 season.", do you and other posters replying in this thread telling the OP to play up or appeal up, isn't connecting? This player isn't kicking butt, but seems to want to play up really badly.
- A losing record does not equal kicking butt in any part of my world or the sober world around me.
There is a time to play up. When you go 17-0 in a season as a self-rated player like a guy I watched last year (he should have self-rated 4.0 but he didn't) or when a Computer rated player goes 13-1 in a season, losing one match to a unbeaten self-rated player 11-9 in TB, but then he wins all five singles match he played at State/ District, including every match against all the self-rated players, yeah, it's time they both played up.
But for you, with your losing record in year two? No I think no. Not until you put your money on the line and challenge three other 3.5 players are also willing to beat money and beer against you.
Want the skill, not the rating.