Bobby Riggs
New User
Whenever a match is close I get overwhelmed with negative thoughts. I have tried deep breathing and bouncing on my feet to help loosen my body up, but as soon as I do negative thoughts seem to rush back into my head and tighten up my body again in a nano-second. After I lose it bothers me a lot. When I'm in a tight match I remember how bad I feel when I lose and that seems to make me me even more tense. I want to do anything to avoid the disappointment of losing. It only makes me more tense.
In the past I've had some real disasters during tight matches ( I'm a 3.5-4.0 player) but I've also won some tight matches. The only thing I seem to remember though are the bad things that happened. Why? What can I do to eliminate these negative thoughts affecting my play. Thanks for all advice.
In the past I've had some real disasters during tight matches ( I'm a 3.5-4.0 player) but I've also won some tight matches. The only thing I seem to remember though are the bad things that happened. Why? What can I do to eliminate these negative thoughts affecting my play. Thanks for all advice.