Hey, Prof, nice theory.
The only sure thing is that from your reaction towards Nole's situation it is abundantly clear that you have no idea what people in war zones go through.
Read carefully my post that you quote once again, then watch the video of the 7 years old Nole which was supposedly made in the years of wars as you yourself claimed (btw, you are also wrong about the final years when Nole was there, as he moved to Germany at latest in the middle of 1999, whereas you included also 2000 as an year of suffering for him), then note that he himself said that he never lost a relative in the bombings, that he actually was travelling with his father abroad, when the citizens of the then Yugoslavia required a visa which was granted mostly to the privileged, that he and his family had a constant contact and he was relying on the connections of a former high-profile tennis player with his own tennis academy etc etc, and try to understand what I am saying.