Retired after four games?

Cindysphinx

G.O.A.T.
Geez. I'm playing on a local singles ladder, and I challenged a former teammate to some singles. She's 2.5, soon to rise to 3.0. I'm 3.0, but my singles is pretty dodgy. She's going to districts, so it would be good for her to play a higher-rated opponent for practice. It would be fun to see each other again, so we set it up.

We met, chatted, warmed up. In the warm up, she commented on how much better I am than last fall. I replied that I've been taking some lessons. I could see that her previous moonball serve had improved, but she still had the wrong grip, her volleys were weak, her forehand was flat, her backhand was non-existent. It would be a pushfest, and I'd have to work hard to play well rather than just push back.

She serves first. I notice that when I hit the ball deep with topspin, she just stands there watching it, expecting it to go out. They don't go out. I break. 1-0.

I serve (very poorly). I come in on her short balls, and she tries to lob. Most sail long. She says something about how she's not playing well. I hold. 2-0.

She serves and holds when I make four consecutive UEs. Doh!! 2-1.

I serve (still no pace on the serve) and resolve to keep the ball on the court. I get a few groundstrokes to her lefty backhand, which causes her to miss. I hold. 3-1.

She serves and misses two shots wide and fails to reach a drop shot to go down love-40. She says her neck feels sore and that's why she's playing badly. She comes to net, she stretches her neck. We chat a bit.

And then she retires.

What's up with that, do you think?
 

bad_call

Legend
maybe a girl thing. she met a guy and he hasn't called her back in a few days. u should have asked her what's up. being from mars, it takes me a while to pick up on those things.
 

West Coast Ace

G.O.A.T.
Geez. I'm playing on a local singles ladder, and I challenged a former teammate to some singles. She's 2.5, soon to rise to 3.0. I'm 3.0, but my singles is pretty dodgy. She's going to districts, so it would be good for her to play a higher-rated opponent for practice. It would be fun to see each other again, so we set it up.

We met, chatted, warmed up. In the warm up, she commented on how much better I am than last fall. I replied that I've been taking some lessons. I could see that her previous moonball serve had improved, but she still had the wrong grip, her volleys were weak, her forehand was flat, her backhand was non-existent. It would be a pushfest, and I'd have to work hard to play well rather than just push back.

She serves first. I notice that when I hit the ball deep with topspin, she just stands there watching it, expecting it to go out. They don't go out. I break. 1-0.

I serve (very poorly). I come in on her short balls, and she tries to lob. Most sail long. She says something about how she's not playing well. I hold. 2-0.

She serves and holds when I make four consecutive UEs. Doh!! 2-1.

I serve (still no pace on the serve) and resolve to keep the ball on the court. I get a few groundstrokes to her lefty backhand, which causes her to miss. I hold. 3-1.

She serves and misses two shots wide and fails to reach a drop shot to go down love-40. She says her neck feels sore and that's why she's playing badly. She comes to net, she stretches her neck. We chat a bit.

And then she retires.

What's up with that, do you think?
She did you a favor?

Since you were going to maul her and it wasn't really going to help your game, she gave you the win. No big deal - the 'neck' excuse is sad - but nothing to lose sleep over. You've gotten better and she hasn't.

Bad Call - great sig!
 

ubel

Professional
wow, she's going to districts and you just totally crushed any confidence she may have had in her game. i gotta applaud you there haha :D

seriously, some people just don't really have that self-improving desire. you said it yourself, same "wrong grip, her volleys were weak, her forehand was flat, her backhand was non-existent". quitting when the going gets tough is really the worst. maybe this'll be a wake up call for her if she does get on a 3.0 ladder and sees there are more players like you, and improving is the only way she'll be able to win :)
 
Unfortunately, I believe the neck spasm was real. When players get nervous, they start developing cramps.

I also think she realized she really does have to level up to a decent 3.0 before her team can consider winning Districts.
 

Cindysphinx

G.O.A.T.
I took a similar beating as a rising 3.0. The lady sent me packing in 45 minutes. She was utterly unimpressed with the pushballs that had been so effective at 2.5.

I've been taking lessons ever since. Talk about your wake-up call.
 
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