Having a ship on your shoulder is linked to having a big ego. It's because of your ego that you can't accept defeat at the hands of someone else so you will do everything to crush him and wash away the bad taste left by the previous match.
I didn't mean chip on your shoulder on a match to match basis, I also called it deeply rooted self-doubt, that's a lifelong character trait, not some bulletin board level concept contingent on the daily form or the weekly opponent. So it's not about crushing someone else at all for some of these guys as much as it is about proving to themselves that they're worthy of competing and that can happen even in a loss. I don't know where you're from and whether you're familiar with Tom Brady, but if not I urge you to look up some documentaries about him. He's another example of a humble guy without a huge ego (we are talking in relative terms here obviously) who became one of the most successful athletes in the history by constantly primarily fighting his self-doubt.
Jealousy is an excuse often used by people that can't accept criticism. If I'm jealous, it means I'm jealous of all greatest players, even of my favorite ones like Djokovic ?
Rather than a illegitimate motive, it's an illegitimate accusation.
Yeah, that sounds very smart and effective, except for the fact that you fell into a deep logical pitfall (or did you dig it intentionally for me to fall into it?). We are, obviously, not talking about your "personal" jealousy, as in you being jealous for not having these guys' talent, money, lifestyle, what have you. We are talking about your vicarious jealousy through your favorite player, as in you being jealous for your player potentially not having some of his opponent's desirable traits.
You guys don't understand that being humble publicly is very easy, even if you've been doing it for 15 years. It doesn't require any particular skill or intelligence. The kind of things the three of them say is the kind of thing anyone could say, it just requires common sense. And again, arrogance is not a bad thing if it's used correctly. What the Big 3 has been doing all those years, which is appearing as much humble as possible in front of people, is the right thing to do. You don't throw your pride and confidence in the face of people, that's stupid and uncivil. You just use it to move forward and surpass yourself.
First, who are "we guys"? It's not a rhetorical question and please answer it, so I could know whom you're lumping me together with. That information just might come in handy during my (sub)conscious introspective sessions.
But regardless of whom you think "we" are, you are arguing only with me at the moment, hence I'm only responsible for my own views. As for your mini lecture, it begs several questions:
1) Why would you assume that humility is, in today's society no less, such an absolute ideal that anybody would be willing to pull a life-long pretending job in order to convincingly fake it? I mean, you seem to genuinely believe in the value of humility and I share that belief with you, but we have enough examples around showing us that nowadays humility is no necessary trait for achieving fame and fortune. Quite the opposite in many cases actually, be it CR7, Ibra, Neon Deion, OBJ, you name them.
2) Even if we accept #1, why is Rafa the only one of the Big 3 who is allegedly striving for this ideal? Nobody ever accuses Roger and Novak of being overly humble in the first place, let alone of consistently faking it.
3) Do you speak from personal experience when you say how easy it is to maintain a humble image over decades of being under constant public scrutiny all the while playing a global sport at the highest possible level? If not then there's no reason to be condescending, as I can speculate about it probably just as well as you can. Bear in mind also, that we were primarily discussing Rafa whose perceived levels of humility are on another level comparing to those of Roger and Novak so you shouldn't lump the three together in this context. Sorry, I just don't buy the equilibristic as a cop out at the end, we were talking about Rafa.