FatHead250
Professional
*or makes or keeps making bad tactical decisions*
Why would you care? It's not you missing it's him. How does that affect you? I wouldn't care if they made 20 mistakes in a row. Im a person with an education in math, and I know that even when the odds of making a mistake are low, 20 mistakes in a row can happen. It wouldn't bother me a bit. If your partner has lost confidence and is beating themselves up for those mistakes I would just try and show the partner that I really don't care if she misses or not, because I'm not. We as humans are inherently selfish and normally care about our own performance. But, we're social creatures and feel down when we feel like we're letting somebody else down, like the partner A who sees their partner B is upset by their perfimance so partner As perfomance drops, and there's no way for partnerB to hide their annoyance or frustration. If they miss, and you feel annoyed, and you expect them to do better, you're putting pressure on them, and they're not going to play better. So ask yourself, why do you care? No pro would care. The better a pro plays, the less they care about misses.
In the professional sport, no one cares if their teammate misses a lot. If they lose a second round amtch and the partner ruined everything they wouldn't care and just go practice with them tomorrow like they would otherwise. If they're playing a big final like Wimbledon, and one partner messes up a lot, the other professional partner would only feel bad for them, and not be annoyed and feeling bad about the whole situation. A human, a selfish creature, doesn't feel bad when he's not at fault for something going astray. If you do, you're not a professional and youre not that intelligent. But, we're empathetical creatures, so if we genuinely like our partner (which is a rarity in league), we feel bad for them when they mess up a big victory. So maybe, when you're mad you lost a big match, you just don't give a **** about your partner? I bet it is.
League players like you amuse me when they say how they're mad they're losing in doubles and are frustrated, if its anything else other than self centered (which is a normal human behaviour). Get better at tennis and you will stop caring about your partner messing up. Acknowledge that you're a selfish but empathetical creature and ask yourself a question - why do you feel anything if your team is losing unless you just feel bad for your partner? If a big trophy is slipping out of your hands, but it's not your fault, you SHOULDN'T Care.
Do you agree? If there's anything I need to clarify, feel free to ask me questions.
Why would you care? It's not you missing it's him. How does that affect you? I wouldn't care if they made 20 mistakes in a row. Im a person with an education in math, and I know that even when the odds of making a mistake are low, 20 mistakes in a row can happen. It wouldn't bother me a bit. If your partner has lost confidence and is beating themselves up for those mistakes I would just try and show the partner that I really don't care if she misses or not, because I'm not. We as humans are inherently selfish and normally care about our own performance. But, we're social creatures and feel down when we feel like we're letting somebody else down, like the partner A who sees their partner B is upset by their perfimance so partner As perfomance drops, and there's no way for partnerB to hide their annoyance or frustration. If they miss, and you feel annoyed, and you expect them to do better, you're putting pressure on them, and they're not going to play better. So ask yourself, why do you care? No pro would care. The better a pro plays, the less they care about misses.
In the professional sport, no one cares if their teammate misses a lot. If they lose a second round amtch and the partner ruined everything they wouldn't care and just go practice with them tomorrow like they would otherwise. If they're playing a big final like Wimbledon, and one partner messes up a lot, the other professional partner would only feel bad for them, and not be annoyed and feeling bad about the whole situation. A human, a selfish creature, doesn't feel bad when he's not at fault for something going astray. If you do, you're not a professional and youre not that intelligent. But, we're empathetical creatures, so if we genuinely like our partner (which is a rarity in league), we feel bad for them when they mess up a big victory. So maybe, when you're mad you lost a big match, you just don't give a **** about your partner? I bet it is.
League players like you amuse me when they say how they're mad they're losing in doubles and are frustrated, if its anything else other than self centered (which is a normal human behaviour). Get better at tennis and you will stop caring about your partner messing up. Acknowledge that you're a selfish but empathetical creature and ask yourself a question - why do you feel anything if your team is losing unless you just feel bad for your partner? If a big trophy is slipping out of your hands, but it's not your fault, you SHOULDN'T Care.
Do you agree? If there's anything I need to clarify, feel free to ask me questions.
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