Reposting because I really haven't heard much in response to my questions at the end:
Ladies 4.0 tennis: My partner who loves to play the net aggressively came in to poach. She hit the ball pretty hard but not at anyone and didn't hit anyone [it was a great poach shot]. The opponent said, "Please don't hit the ball close to me". How would you handle this comment, what is an appropriate response, does an opponent has any business making such a request?
My partner did not say anything to this opponent who had made the request. She backed off of the net. Shared with me her obvious displeasure and disbelief with what she had heard and then proceeded for the next hour and a half to not play her game (at all). She is a high level 4.0 and at best she looked like a 3.0 the rest of the time. She did not move from where she stood to hit a ball. If it came close, she swatted at it just to get it over the net and let the opponents put it away. Really close to 0% effort...basically quit playing. I, as her partner, had to try to go for anything and everything. Opponents started to only hit to me so that they could at least have a little bit of fun. My partner saw only 2 options: do what she did or totally quit and walk off the court. What is your opinion of how she handled this situation? Would any of you quit like this under these circumstances? Do you think she owes me, her partner, any kind of apology for her behavior? [She is not just a player playing social tennis with me as her partner, she is a good friend]
Ladies 4.0 tennis: My partner who loves to play the net aggressively came in to poach. She hit the ball pretty hard but not at anyone and didn't hit anyone [it was a great poach shot]. The opponent said, "Please don't hit the ball close to me". How would you handle this comment, what is an appropriate response, does an opponent has any business making such a request?
My partner did not say anything to this opponent who had made the request. She backed off of the net. Shared with me her obvious displeasure and disbelief with what she had heard and then proceeded for the next hour and a half to not play her game (at all). She is a high level 4.0 and at best she looked like a 3.0 the rest of the time. She did not move from where she stood to hit a ball. If it came close, she swatted at it just to get it over the net and let the opponents put it away. Really close to 0% effort...basically quit playing. I, as her partner, had to try to go for anything and everything. Opponents started to only hit to me so that they could at least have a little bit of fun. My partner saw only 2 options: do what she did or totally quit and walk off the court. What is your opinion of how she handled this situation? Would any of you quit like this under these circumstances? Do you think she owes me, her partner, any kind of apology for her behavior? [She is not just a player playing social tennis with me as her partner, she is a good friend]