Wow, I logged back into tt just now to see my thread got some response. I guess I struck a nerve with the "S" word topic.
I will start by saying I do not take these things as seriously as I may have sounded. I was probably mad because my normal partner wasn't there and we just got smoked. I do agree with the poster who mentioned that on one hand we always are looking for good competition to up our games and as such should refrain from complaining when it does show up in force, and so maybe I was just miffed that my sub was like a deer in the headlights against this ringer we faced. He pretty much gave up after the kid started practicing serves, and gave me this "deer in the headlights" look. He was ready to quit tennis altogether after the match.
I'll also say I could probably bagel no one anyhow, I just like to exaggerate for effect and was talking more about my singles ability, while my doubles is definitely in the 4.0 range I think from experience my singles ability is now closer to 4.5, but I have only been able to sub-up into the 4.5 singles leagues with about a 40% win percentage, and currently I have about a 75% win avg in the 4.0 leagues. I have only self-rated myself comparing myself to others in the appropriate leagues this way. Started league tennis at 3.5 a few years ago and have been progressing ever since. Once I start to win over 90%, I figure it's time to move up (but then again you have to contend with team dynamics, and so maybe, like me, this guy couldn't get in on the 4.5 doubles team just like I couldn't get in as a regular on the 4.5 singles team, so I just play top court 4.0 and still find solid competition there--no blowouts on either side as of yet this year). The gray area between ratings is so vague and broad, so I do come to expect discrepancies. If I actually tried to play in the 4.5 doubles leagues in the area, I would get destroyed. I'm just not a great doubles player, so I play 4.0 doubles. None of these are usta leagues, just club leagues against other local clubs.
Honestly though I had never faced pace like this before, which is what prompted me to vent. The difference between someone sandbagging down 0.5 of a level is not as grand as someone who is obviously 1+ above in skill level. This was one of those "where did this guy come from" moments. You can tell you are out of your element immediately. Hmm, maybe I was really mad that I didn't get the chance to actually rally with this guy to help improve my game. The match was just a series of quick doubles set-ups and put-aways, with them picking on my partner.
In the end, I am just in it for the fun, beer, socializing, and friendly competition. Tennis in no way pays my bills, and I had already moved on a few minutes after my OP. I do appreciate all the comments and for not getting flamed. This does seem like a subject that does plague some more than others, and something that will never go away. I guess I was just amazed really at what could have gone through the head of someone that knows without a doubt that they will tear up their opponent. There is a higher league in our area, that he would have fit in great with, and also still probably have won. Oh well, looking forward to more years of tennis, sandbaggers and all.