Crionics
Semi-Pro
This is very good advice! Funny enough, I have been struggling with a pusher who also pancakes his second serve. I have changed my philosophy from trying to win all the time to looking at it as "this is helping me improve my weaknesses". I know eventually the matches will get closer and it will feel good knowing that I have improved but the other guy chose to stay the same (and still make a bold claim of being 4.0).
That is some old post you are digging up! I am not even quite sure anymore which guy I was actually referring to in my post (my tennis partners changed a lot over the years), but if it is the one I think it is, I beat him quite easily a year or two later..
In hindsight he wasn't such a tough pusher to beat. Last summer I participated to the local club tournament and to play a 50+ old guy who looked out-of-shape and his shots had no pace; during warm-up I was thinking "no way I can lose to this hack, this will be an easy win for me". Ha! Turned out I lost badly in 2 sets. In the second set I was leading 4-2 but then still managed to lose the set. Somehow he always got a lot of my balls back either with some moonball landing relatively quite deep in the field or some junk-sliced shots. It was hard to find the balance between playing it safe (but going for long rallies and eventually losing the point with some dumb mistake) or going for too much (and just missing badly most of the time).
Anyway, after the match we started playing regularly against each other. I still lost many times and it took me a while until I started scoring a win. I really enjoyed playing againt him and it really made me think how I should play differently in order to win. I started coming in to the net a bit more, something I hardly ever did before,
A lot of people talk about pushers in a derogative way and the reason for this, I believe, is that pushers ultimately hurt their egos. What pushers are doing to their opponents is exposing their weaknesses and showing them that they are simply not as good as they think they are.