Have a crush on the most beautiful girl?

Fandango

Rookie
Hi, guys. This is kinda awkward but I'll just post it.

I'v known this girl for about 3 months now, and there is something about her that makes her special to me. I don't know if it was desperate because I had class with her for about a month and there were no hot girls there or if its the element of mystery and her amazing smile.

But its been driving me mad because I switched classes and I've only seen her for about two mins max a week now.

And I've only had casual conversation so I don't know her that well still.

The first couple weeks were tough because even though I got to see her everyday I had to deal with the weekends and how I would count down the hours until I would see her again.

So, in short; I was crazy about her. But my academic advisor told me that I had to switch the class I had her in so I wouldn't be able to graduate in time. I few tears passed the corners of my eyes when I heard that mainly because I barely could handle the weekends when I wouldn't see her till the next monday.

Its been six weeks and I haven't really talked to her except for an occasional smile here and there; but I think it is fading away and don't know if it's a good thing or bad thing.

Also, I saw her smile and it was like a religious experience or something to that subliminal nature.

And that is when I knew I really liked her. And I wanted to see her as the most beautiful girl in the world but I didn't know if it was possible because there are so many other girls out there and so many other beauties that it is hard to compare: like these girls



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And the girl I like had the goody two shoes smile and she has smaller eyes than all those girls and brown hair. So I don't know if I can say if she is more beautiful than all those other girls.

So what do I do?

I know looks are only skin deep but each one of those images gives you different feelings and I wonder how you can be satisfied with just one face.
 

dave333

Hall of Fame
The simplest solution is this...go talk to her. Become friends. Then sharing classes won't be a problem at all.
 

AAAA

Hall of Fame
No point in pining for something and not do anything about it. Ask her out for dinner or something. If she declines move on.
 

TheJRK

Rookie
The first couple weeks were tough because even though I got to see her everyday I had to deal with the weekends and how I would count down the hours until I would see her again.

Whoa dude, you sound like a crazy stalker. I guarantee that if that girl read your post she would be freaked out. :shock:
 

Kobble

Hall of Fame
Whoa dude, you sound like a crazy stalker. I guarantee that if that girl read your post she would be freaked out. :shock:
LOL He sounds like a stalker! Or should I say, "The Catcher in the Rye." Make sure you start stocking up on graffiti remover, bro. I'll bet you use the word purity often, too.:)
 

Power Player

Bionic Poster
You will never land a hot girl the way you are thinking right now. Life isn't a romance movie dude. Man up a little and quit being creepy.
 

Fandango

Rookie
Whoa dude, you sound like a crazy stalker. I guarantee that if that girl read your post she would be freaked out. :shock:

lol, I'm just trying to show you guys that it isnt lust and that she is actual more than just "another girl" and I actually cared until I see her again. But now, I barely get to see her and I guess the feelings are fading away.
 

Camilio Pascual

Hall of Fame
There's about 17 different things I could say to you, Fandango, but you are getting some good advice already.
Here's something to consider.
Your posting of these models and celebs to us tells me that, whether you realize it or not, you must have a woman who looks good TO OTHERS as well as to you. One thing that will tell you that you are maturing is that you will be concerned only with how a woman looks TO YOU, regardless of what others think.
 

Steady Eddy

Legend
Are you thinking, "I want the really cute girls, because other guys aren't interested in them."? Sorry to break it to you, but ALL the other guys have the same idea. The competition for the most attractive women will be intense. You being interested in them brings nothing to the table. The question is, why would she want to pick you? I know, you're thinking from the narcissistic angle that you're interested in her, so how does this happen? But the reality is you'll have to have a reason for her to be interested in you over lots of other guys.

Here's what you should do, study hard and go into medicine. Do further study to become a specialist, a surgeon, then after you're way successful you'll have your pick of lots of women like her. (You won't know where she is by this time.) Don't 'lock in' now while you're a student with no $s. It's like selling a stock, you want to wait until the time is right, and that's going to be a few years from now.
 

Kobble

Hall of Fame
lol, I'm just trying to show you guys that it isnt lust and that she is actual more than just "another girl" and I actually cared until I see her again. But now, I barely get to see her and I guess the feelings are fading away.
We heard all that before, Holden. I'm sure she is a "pure" and innocent girl. Let us know when the rage sets in.
 

jman

Semi-Pro
lol, I'm just trying to show you guys that it isnt lust and that she is actual more than just "another girl" and I actually cared until I see her again. But now, I barely get to see her and I guess the feelings are fading away.


Hey Fandango, I had almost the exact same situation back in High School. The thing was this girl would always look and smile at me but I was so shy, I didn't have the guts to come up to her and get to know her. Now almost 10 years later I've regretted not asking her out, and now I'm left in a state of 'what if'.
My advice, ask her out b4 you graduate, otherwise you'll be living with regret for a while.
 

Fedace

Banned
The simplest solution is this...go talk to her. Become friends. Then sharing classes won't be a problem at all.

I agree with this 100%. Just go talk to her. You find out either way, if she is into you or not. You can waste alot of time trying to find out if she likes you. :)
 

ayuname

Semi-Pro
1. Cut a hole in a box.
2. Put your junk in that box.
3. Make her open the box.

Haha. Just kidding.
All you have to do is keep talking to her. Become good friends and things will settle from there.
 

ayuname

Semi-Pro
Those pickup lines are actually quite lame. Ahaha.

Just try listening to some love songs. I was "hitting on" a girl on facebook using some good love lines like, "Don't be silly girl. You're my miracle.". Haaha.
 

mawashi

Hall of Fame
yea talk to her. the Iphone has some great Apps. Apps on the pickup lines and so on.... those might be worth a try if you have a Iphone....:)

Bahahahahaha!!!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

That's bout the lamest thing I've heard in a while LOL!

You're as clueless in real life as you r on the boards LOL!

mawashi
 

Fedace

Banned
Bahahahahaha!!!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

That's bout the lamest thing I've heard in a while LOL!

You're as clueless in real life as you r on the boards LOL!

mawashi

obviously the women in Singapore doesn't have the same sense of humor as do in the good old USA. I phone apps are pretty funny....
 

mawashi

Hall of Fame
obviously the women in Singapore doesn't have the same sense of humor as do in the good old USA. I phone apps are pretty funny....

LOL!!!! This is too funny, you didn't even get the point of my comment LOL!

You actually need a gimmick to get women to talk to you? That's actually more sad than funny.

What's next, using puppies for coffee, babies for dinner? Lemme guess, your so called "Stamford" education for a drink LOL!

You're hopeless fed.

mawashi
 

Puddy

Rookie
Nothing against American women, but women from Singapore are some of the HOTTEST chicks in the world! :shock:
 

The_Question

Hall of Fame
The first couple weeks were tough because even though I got to see her everyday I had to deal with the weekends and how I would count down the hours until I would see her again.

So, in short; I was crazy about her. But my academic advisor told me that I had to switch the class I had her in so I wouldn't be able to graduate in time. I few tears passed the corners of my eyes when I heard that mainly because I barely could handle the weekends when I wouldn't see her till the next monday.

Also, I saw her smile and it was like a religious experience or something to that subliminal nature.

Umm...creepy... :-? Consider you hardly talked to her, and she doesn't even real know you at all...
 

Fearsome Forehand

Professional
Join Stalkers Anonymous? ;o)

Ah, puppy love. There is probably a significant difference between the idea you have created of this girl in your head and the actual girl. So don't torture yourself over this, or any, chick. Try to imagine her being completely unreasonable and biatching at you incessantly for no apparent reason; that should help. ;o)

If you build her up to be perfect, you won't be able to approach her. Calm down, man up, adopt an indifferent attitude (you will probably encounter a hundred+ such girls in your life if you are at all good looking.) Be cordial, polite and abundantly witty. Invite her to the movies or to lunch, something very casual. Don't act like a love sick doofus. Make friends with her. If she is interested in you, it should be fairly obvious. One step at a time; it is a process.

FYI: Most attractive women aren't worth the grief. Only a very few are. You hardly know her yet so cool out. I've known many very pretty women who seemed nice and normal at first blush. Only later after we became involved did I discover they suffered from various personality disorders. Pretty women are always in demand so if one is habitually single, there is usually a good reason like she is batshoot crazy. My experience has been that there are two kinds of very attractive women: severely crazy and slightly crazy. Most are master manipulators of men (as most men are easily manipulated by pretty girls.) Try to find a nice girl who is both attractive and only slightly crazy.
 
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mtommer

Hall of Fame
lol, I'm just trying to show you guys that it isnt lust and that she is actual more than just "another girl" and I actually cared until I see her again. But now, I barely get to see her and I guess the feelings are fading away.

Yeah, crushes end. When they do, it's not such a big deal that you had the crush to begin with and you'll move on rather easily.
 

r2473

G.O.A.T.
I see GHB as YOUR only hope.

Otherwise, try to get a picture of her and just stay home and jerk off a few times a night.

I don't see what else YOU can do.
 

Lakoste

Professional
Date a woman for solely her looks and you'll grow tired of her in less than a month.

Is growing tired of her in a month a bad thing? The kid is in high school, if anything it'll be a nice little confidence boost which it sounds like he needs.
 

ubermeyer

Hall of Fame
um, it's really weird to post something like this on here. Please don't impose your personal fetishes on us...
 
Lust....no matter WHERE on planet earth...isn't it beautiful?

"We" are slaves........and 'THEY' (no matter where).... know it.

They grow it, they own it......'THEY' ...... know it.
 

Fandango

Rookie
lol, i'm a creeper. whatever. I didn't really think much of first. Its just when I thought she was kinda into me that I became attracted to her.

But I'll try to play the field before I start with her. Maybe a couple years down the road.
 

Kobble

Hall of Fame
lol, i'm a creeper. whatever. I didn't really think much of first. Its just when I thought she was kinda into me that I became attracted to her.

But I'll try to play the field before I start with her. Maybe a couple years down the road.
Possibly a creeper in training. You probably haven't had the disappointment and rejection to push you over the edge, yet.
 
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