Let's try this again...
OK, this reaction is interesting. I'm hearing that I must S&V, that I must use it as my default, that I must use it in real matches immediately, and that if it doesn't work during the real match, I must keep doing it anyway.
This doesn't make sense to me. Why is S&V any different from any other strategy? If I decide to hit moonballs and my opponents are killing my moonballs, I would stop hitting moonballs. I would not stubbornly continue to hit them, especially once my partner said, "Dang, girl. Maybe you'd better hit drives instead."
Well, with S&V, it is possible to get off to a bad start, and it is possible that your opponents can be better at beating you at that strategy than you are in executing it. So if you are in a match and you S&V four times and are broken at love, doesn't this mean that (1) you should put the S&V back on the shelf for match play until you get better, and (2) and you had better not S&V anymore against those opponents and try something else?
You know, I had a recent match in which my female partner was S&V on her serves. She was broken every time. Her S&V is not horrible by any means. For whatever reason, she was either missing the approach volley or was hitting something so weak that our opponents could exploit it. Yeah, she had some spectacular winners, but the ratio of winners to errors was not working in our favor during any of our service or return games.
We lost the first set, and our opponents had four games in the second. My partner was serving. She S&V's and soon it was love-30. I walked back and said something like, "OK, we're six points away from losing the match. We have to find a way to keep the ball in play. We have better groundstrokes than these players, and if we can make them play we might climb back into this match. Let's just keep it in play."
My partner said, "No, I think we need to play aggressively. If we just hit the ball back, they are going to punish us." So she came in, was broken, and we lost the match.
Really, I think this was a mistake. We had already tried an aggressive strategy for a set and a half and it wasn't working. Why continue to have faith in it that it will suddenly start to work?
...go back and look at what I said in Post #5, and let me expand on some things I said there:
I don't think we're telling you, collectively, you have to S&V. I think the overall message is, you have to figure out what your priorities are...winning in the short term by whatever means, or working on what *might* be a better long term path. I'm not saying it's bad, but it's obvious that you are very, very, very,
very focused on what your results (not your play) were in the last match and what you think they are
going to be in the next match.
IMHO, if you focus on the results rather than the process, it's always a crap shoot...some days you'll eat the bear, other days, the bear will eat you, but there won't be any overall reason why, one way or the other. I know, it's easy to say that "Well, S&V worked for a game and I held my serve, and then it didn't, and I lost my serve", but those aren't constants, just things that happened.
Which leads me to a related topic, which is that there is
no way to guarantee results on a tennis court, or in life, either. You take your best shot and let the chips fall where they do. Tennis is not a two plus two equals four event. You can have the best game in the world, but if you have an off day, or your opponent has an on day, you can lose. There is no such thing as "We should never lose to that team", or "That team has us by the short hairs"...whatever happens is what happens, and there are no woulda/shoulda/couldas involved.
Having said that, it doesn't mean you don't try to win or don't believe you can. Nor can you just wing it and believe your going to win even when the facts dictate otherwise. You have to prepare yourself as best as possible, believe in yourself, show up and leave it all on the court...and then the results will be whatever they're meant to be.
Related to all this, you are, reasonably so, constrained in terms of practice time and other factors. Because of your situation, even more so than what I said above, you have to decide what your goals are and what's the right path to get to those goals...and be realistic about what you can reasonably achieve and how long it is likely to take.
To give you a local viewpoint, I decided I wanted to be the best ski racer and tennis player I could be, and so for eleven years, my whole life revolved around both sports. I lived in ski towns, worked construction or restaurants in the summer, taught skiing and worked in restaurants in the winter, lived in a trailer with a roommate or two, and other than that, I played tennis and skied
all the time. It wasn't a luxury, it was a trade-off. I had no wife, no kids, no money, no real career, no real future beyond my next meal and the next race or tennis match. That was my choice, and it was worth it...to me...because it set me on a path to try to become the best ski racer and tennis player I could be.
And I'm still on that path, even though I now have a real job and a few other accoutrements of a normal life, it's one of the big journeys that is important to my life, and I've never regretted for a moment committing to it. What are my results? I've won a few tournaments and a few ski races, lost a bunch more, but it's more important to me to continue to play tennis, ski, and compete and go forward than to look back excessively.
That's my story, your mileage is obviously going to vary. Because you're in a more constrained situation than I was, you necessarily have to have different goals and different expectations. Nobody can tell you what path you should take, only you can figure that one out.
Having said all that good stuff, regardless of what you choose, I'll give you some advice my last coach hit me with one day when I was frustrated about
my recent tournament losses:
(1) Do everything you can to make yourself the best player you can be.
(2) Believe in yourself, and leave it all on the court, every time.
(3) Try to have fun, somewhere, somehow, every time you play tennis,
regardless of the score...