The_Feather
New User
I’ve been dealing with a certain player in my area who just won’t quit, and I don’t really know what to do. First of all, I randomly met him one night, we found a similar interest in stringing and the technical side of the game. He’s a decent player and had some good practice sessions with him.
Then after the two or three times we had a hit, he would randomly just start showing up to the courts where I was playing at, by himself, and would ask to “rotate in”. The thing is, I would usually be in the middle of a match or set. So totally inconvenient and rude. After the two times me and my partner allowed him to rotate in (Aussie Doubles), he would regularly show up and just walk onto the court and wait to just walk on without saying anything.
The biggest ****er about this is that he not only never bring a new can of balls or anything, he critiques every stroke that me and my partner made, “That’s an interesting technique.” “No, no, no, step into the ball and drive through it.”
Then he started in with the phone calls and text messages, “Are you hitting tonight?” “What time are you and ‘X’ hitting?” Most recently, “Are you home? Would like to come by and look at your machine/racket collection/strings/etc.”
It’s just getting really uncomfortable and I feel bad for the guy because apparently we’re not the only guys in our area that don’t want to play with him…lots and lots of players have or have had similar experiences with him.
It’s getting to the point where I want to change location so this guy just doesn’t show up and assume he can walk on, I have recently told him that I will be practicing singles exclusively for a few months.
Should I get a restraining order (totally joking)
Then after the two or three times we had a hit, he would randomly just start showing up to the courts where I was playing at, by himself, and would ask to “rotate in”. The thing is, I would usually be in the middle of a match or set. So totally inconvenient and rude. After the two times me and my partner allowed him to rotate in (Aussie Doubles), he would regularly show up and just walk onto the court and wait to just walk on without saying anything.
The biggest ****er about this is that he not only never bring a new can of balls or anything, he critiques every stroke that me and my partner made, “That’s an interesting technique.” “No, no, no, step into the ball and drive through it.”
Then he started in with the phone calls and text messages, “Are you hitting tonight?” “What time are you and ‘X’ hitting?” Most recently, “Are you home? Would like to come by and look at your machine/racket collection/strings/etc.”
It’s just getting really uncomfortable and I feel bad for the guy because apparently we’re not the only guys in our area that don’t want to play with him…lots and lots of players have or have had similar experiences with him.
It’s getting to the point where I want to change location so this guy just doesn’t show up and assume he can walk on, I have recently told him that I will be practicing singles exclusively for a few months.
Should I get a restraining order (totally joking)