i played a match today and could not return the serve effectively at all. i have been returning the serve with my right hand(fh) in the semi western position and my left hand in the easern grip that i hit with a bh.
how do you all approach serve returns with your grip. or just how do you approach returning serves effectively in general?
I have the same setup. My right hand is set with a FH grip, and my left is set as it would be when hitting a 2HBH. That way, if it goes to my right, I'm already set for a forehand, and if it goes to my left, my left hand is set and controls the racket during the backswing/shoulder turn (I change my right hand during the take back, so it's set by the time I'm ready to swing). No matter which way it goes, regardless of whether or not I get a read on the serve, I'm set or nearly set to return.
On top of that though, I already have my mind set on what kind of return I want to hit: no waiting until after the serve is hit to start thinking about what to do. Basically, my plan is to take a short backswing with good shoulder turn and then drive through the ball like I would on a swinging volley, aiming about a foot or so above the net (direction usually depends on what feels natural based on the serve coming in, though sometimes I decide beforehand; quite often, I just go right back at the server's feet since it's an easy target to see). The only time I change my mind is if the serve goes so wide that I have to go full stretch, but that's a natural adjustment that doesn't really take any thought.
For me, driving through the ball with a short and somewhat flatter swing gives better results than trying to go with a heavy topspin swing like on groundstrokes, because the swing path makes it easier to make solid contact with the right timing. Plus, the flatter swing allows me to get decent power and depth without having to swing fast, which also helps with timing and placement.
I notice people who try to whip at the ball like on a groundstroke often struggle with the timing against big servers. People who obviously wait until the serve is hit before trying to make any decisions are usually late when they decide to swing at the return, and they often pop the ball up when they decide to block or slice.