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My god, what is so hard to understand? When you're playing with friends it has to be fun for both players. Slicing every forehand back into play is no fun. You must be the type of guy to hit aces against 10 year old beginner players and feel happy. You must be thinking "I'm playing my game and having fun, eff the person on the other side of the court". We are rec players here, remember that, fun is an important part of playing.
Perhaps we have different definitions of what "playing" is. Clearly you're talking about non-competitive, even cooperative hitting. I'm talking about competition where each player is trying their utmost to win. Both my opponents and I agree that what makes for a great match is both players pulling out all of the stops and making great shots and variety on both sides. I've never had an opponent remark that I sliced too much or that I attacked the net too much. Well, the immature ones do and by mutual agreement, we stop playing each other.
If I wanted a cooperative hit, I would expect my opponent would not DS or try to blast every ball for a winner or moonball. Most everything else is on the table. I would not mind if he sliced because I need to work on handling slices. If that's all he did on both wings, I'd make sure he wasn't my only hitting partner.
You have more stringent requirements for what makes a good hitting partner.