I just know I tend to lose many matches where I feel like I should have won or at least done more, seems like I really do need hundreds more matches, the most interesting comparison is with my friend, we played around 10 times now already
He plays for the same amount of time since I started (tho he played tennis in high school), but we both have different ways we did tennis during this time:
1st year I hit with friend once per week, or sometimes instead of that some coaching, then did a bit more coaching for 6 months and in the last 1.5 years I do alot of coaching constantly, and I started summer league this summer and play more matches now
He does coaching once per week since the start didn't change at all, and the rest he just plays matches, did summer league last year and now this year
Of the 10 times we played I have won a whooping 0 times
And the most frustrating thing is that he doesn't really DESTROY ME, he did have a great match once where I played badly and really crushed me, but other matches are all very competitive but he just seems to be able to win all the important points, it feels like hes a mental giant and winner, while im a mental midget and loser
Example of last set, where I felt like I played rly good overall:
He serves, I play some good points and up 15:40, end up winning it with a good short winner 1:0 for me
Good service game from me, clean, effective, fast.. 2:0 for me
Some good returns and im up 0:40, then I think about the possibility to go up 3:0 and get kind of hesitant (not willing to be too aggressive just keeping the ball in and it fails) 40:40, I loosen up again... I have 3 times AD, but 3 times blow it after, then he gets AD, 2:1...
Again good service game from me, very comfortable hold 3:1...
Hes up 40:30, I even at 40:40, again some ADS for me, some for him, very very long game.. probably 10 minutes.. he ends up edging it out, I make some horrible decisions and some bad miss 3:2...
Horrible service game from me, 2 double faults, good serve 15:30... bad mistake 15:40.. now im nervious, lose the point 3:3...
Now he holds fairly comfortably 4:3...
Decent service game from me 4:4...
Again up 15:40... this is my chance.. 30:40... ok I get an easy short ball.. LONG.. 40:40... again some ADS for me, but he ends up edging me again.. 5:4
If I lose this service game I lose the set.... cmon... yeah double fault 0:15... bad mistake 0:30.. dammit.. 15:30 good serve... 30:30... now long nice point but he ends up getting it 30:40... yeah double fault again.. set over
Analyzing it all, it could have even ended up like 6:1 for me if some things went better or more my way, and its like this alot of times, sometimes I don't play well and its not, but when I do its usually like this, where I feel like I could have easily win the set or match and yet I always end up losing, almost like something is trolling me.
So I really do need hundreds and hundreds of matches like someone said, this surely shows it, because its quite crazy.
I hope this is not seen as a rant, im just genuenly curious as to what you guys think about this fact that I tend to lose 95% of sets where I feel like I could have easily won them and have many break chances etc..